Create your account • Start tagging • Join curated events
🔐 You need to TAG a person AND be TAGGED by someone else to receive event details and access the RSVP list. No exceptions. This ensures everyone attending is vouched for and part of the curated social graph.
Once you tag and are tagged, the event venue, time, and secret link appear. Simple, accountable, safe.
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📺 How tag‑invite + friend matching + volunteer hosts work (2 min)
No paid hosts — but volunteer hosts make magic happen. Step up, lead, and build the community.
Events are shared through a “tag a person” invite system. Only tagged users receive event details. To get tagged, you must tag others — reciprocal access.
At the event, press Check-In button → added to live attendee list visible only to checked-in guests.
After check-in, each person gets 1–3 potential friends from the attendee list. Your icebreakers for the night.
Post 👗 what you're wearing + 📍 where you're sitting so matches can find you IRL.
Assigned matches can view posts to identify each other, find each other in real life, and form groups naturally. No forced pairing — just social discovery. Encourage shy people, point out matches, make intros. The more everyone participates, the better the night.
No paid host is provided. Instead, men OR women should add themselves as volunteer hosts for each event. Volunteer hosts take charge:
Women feel safer with strong hosts. Step up and lead the event!
Create your profile • Start tagging • Attend curated events
Women are far more likely to participate if there is a strong host. As a volunteer host, your job is simple: be active on the board (post what you’re wearing, where you’re sitting), show up early, welcome people, introduce attendees, and — on the rare occasion someone acts inappropriately — kindly but firmly kick them out. Multiple people can co-host each weekly event. The more hosts, the safer and more vibrant the experience. Women, you can also host! Tag other women, lead the vibe, and create the event you want to attend.
Women are encouraged to confidently tag other women. This helps increase female participation and maintain a balanced (or women-majority) ratio. Men cannot force invites — women curate the room by tagging each other and selecting male profiles anonymously. Men receive invites only when women (or the system via women’s selections) tag them.
Free events where a single paid host is expected to manage everything don't work. We don't provide a host — you do. If you want great events, add yourself as a volunteer host. Men, especially: step up. Women feel safe when there’s a known, reliable person they can approach. Post on the board, kick out troublemakers, introduce people. Embrace the no-host reality by becoming a leader. Multiple volunteers per event = better outcomes for everyone.
Check the board for your matches’ outfits/locations. Walk up, say hi, introduce your friends. The system gives you clues — you make the connection. Volunteer hosts lead by example, approaching newcomers and bridging groups.
If someone is disrespectful, any volunteer host can ask them to leave. Post-event reporting also triggers bans. Women can always go to a host for help — that’s why we need multiple hosts per event.
Tag someone. Be tagged. Show up. Host if you dare.